By Staff Correspondent
Destiny for Afrika Network president Rev. Obedia Musindo, a prominent religious figure, has once again sparked a lively debate on social media with a recent Facebook post addressing the dynamics of love, provision, and respect within relationships.
His message, shared widely, draws parallels between the natural world and human conduct, urging men to prioritize sacrificial love and diligent provision for their partners.
In his post, Rev. Musindo emphasizes that true love is expressed through action, not just words. “If Birds can provide before any intimacy how about human beings called men fail to do the same,” he queries, using the imagery of nature to underscore his point.
He stresses that a woman’s body should never be “abused, undernourished, or subjected to some rough conditions,” advocating for love that is expressed through giving and diligent care.
The reverend minces no words when addressing what he perceives as a pervasive issue: male stinginess and a lack of responsibility.
He asserts that men are not to “feed out of their women hardwork” and that the man is inherently the “head of the family, provider and protector.” He challenges men to be resourceful and “do anything lawfully to feed your family” during tough times, rather than succumbing to idleness.
A particularly pointed observation from Rev. Musindo highlights a common pitfall: “Most men have strength and energy for sex not for work.” He vehemently discourages situations where a man allows his wife to be the sole provider while he remains at home. While acknowledging that women can offer support in certain situations, he insists it should not be a permanent arrangement.
The post also delves into the emotional and physical well-being of women within a relationship. Rev. Musindo passionately argues that a woman’s body, “to be kissed and have sex with must be taken good care of.” He lists practical ways men can demonstrate this care, including ensuring their partners are well-groomed, taken out, and treated as friends. He stresses that a woman should stay in a relationship out of love, not fear or coercion, and that a “happy and satisfied woman will not cheat.”
Rev. Musindo calls for a repositioning of men to prioritize their women’s happiness. He promises a forthcoming series addressing various aspects of love, marriage, romance, sex, happiness, and money, with a focus on tackling the “dangerous vicious circle of cheating.”
His post has resonated with many, prompting discussions on gender roles, financial responsibility, and emotional intimacy within relationships in contemporary society.
